Despite Being Punched in the Face, Tommy Thayer Pays Heartfelt Tribute to Ace Frehley
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Tommy Thayer, KISS’s longtime guitarist, recently paid a touching tribute to the late Ace Frehley, the band’s original “Spaceman.” The post, shared on Instagram, came as a surprise to many fans who remembered the rocky past between the two musicians. Despite a history marked by tension — including a physical altercation — Thayer chose to focus on Frehley’s enduring influence rather than their personal differences.
In his message, Thayer expressed deep admiration for Frehley’s contributions to rock and his own growth as a musician. “A legend who will never be forgotten,” he wrote. “He inspired generations of guitarists, myself included, to chase greatness. It’s been an honor to walk in his footsteps. His legacy will live forever. Rest in peace, Ace.”
The tribute struck a chord across the music community. Many saw it as a gesture of respect that transcended the personal conflict the two once shared, showing that even old rivals can find common ground in their love for music.
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The Infamous Dressing Room Incident
The history between Ace Frehley and Tommy Thayer hasn’t always been friendly. In 2018, Frehley recounted a heated moment between them during a live talk at Hollywood’s Musicians Institute. He claimed that Thayer had confronted him backstage during KISS’s Australian tour — a moment that escalated into an unexpected punch.
Frehley explained that the dispute began over what he called a double standard. The band had a strict “no women in the dressing room” policy, but Frehley noticed that rule didn’t seem to apply when the wives of other band members visited. When Thayer later reminded him of the rule as Frehley’s girlfriend entered the room, Frehley’s frustration reached its limit.
“He started being authoritative with me, so I gave him a shot,” Frehley said. “I got aggravated. I guess the Bronx boy in me came out.” The story quickly spread online, cementing one of the more notorious moments in KISS’s modern history.
Farewell to the Spaceman
Despite that moment of conflict, Thayer’s heartfelt message after Frehley’s passing revealed that time had softened old grudges. The news of Ace Frehley’s death on October 16, 2025, sent shockwaves through the music world. The 74-year-old guitarist reportedly died from complications following a fall at his home studio in Morristown, New Jersey.
According to ABC News, the fall caused a brain bleed that led to serious health issues. Frehley was hospitalized and placed on life support before passing away peacefully, surrounded by his family. In a public statement, his loved ones expressed devastation while celebrating his kindness, humor, and legendary career.
Fans and fellow musicians flooded social media with tributes. For many, Frehley was not just a guitarist — he was a pioneer who helped define the sound and image of one of rock’s most iconic bands.
Ace Frehley’s Legacy Lives On
Ace Frehley’s influence on rock music is undeniable. As a co-founder of KISS in 1973, his signature “Spaceman” persona and distinctive guitar work helped propel the band to global stardom. His solos, marked by raw emotion and technical brilliance, inspired generations of players who picked up the guitar because of him.
Even after leaving KISS, Frehley’s solo career continued to shape the genre. Albums like Ace Frehley (1978) and Anomaly (2009) showcased his unmistakable sound and creative independence. His mix of hard rock, melody, and flair left an indelible mark on fans and musicians alike.
As Thayer’s tribute shows, Frehley’s impact transcends personal history. The two men may have had their differences, but their shared devotion to the music of KISS — and to the spirit of rock itself — connects them in ways that go beyond past conflicts. In the end, Ace Frehley’s legacy will continue to echo through every riff, solo, and fan who ever painted their face like the Spaceman.
